The Sidekick Never Gets The Credit!
Header

Listening And Stuff

June 3rd, 2016 | Posted by adminwf in Uncategorized

datingI was talking to Tina the other day and she was telling me about this issue she is having with her boyfriend.  I’m not really surprised because she has these kinds of problems all the time.  But I still listen and tell her what I would do.  She seems to be really caught up in a few things that I don’t really think she needs to be, like seriously, but it’s not my place to tell her what to do.  It might be.  But she just needs to decide what she wants and not let this guy control everything.  I’m not saying he’s controlling, but… she kind of just does whatever he wants but doesn’t get to do the things she wants to do.  But she seems satisfied with that.  Or maybe not, because she always tells me these things that she isn’t content with.  So I told her about my frequently visited site with relationship advice for women on land of promises and am hoping she reads it.  She probably will eventually do it, but you know people don’t really like to be given suggestions despite asking for them.  I think that she will probably figure out what she wants.  I jus5t am a little worried for he r because I want her to be euphoric with things and I worry that she is kind of caught in a circle of yuckiness right now.  But really that is up to her.

 

Probably she is going to keep having these issues and then keep talking to me and I will tell her what I think she should choose and she is eventually going to realize that she doesn’t like things how they are going.  But she’s so, sort of, needy?  But that’s not the word.  I don’t know.  She just likes to be in a relationship.  And it’s not that she’s in a bad relationship, it’s just that she isn’t being encouraged to excel the way I know she can.  You get thees situations where you have to have people that are wanting the best for each other, and I think that he is just kind of doing his own thing and she is following him.  And that’s not how I think it should work.  But I guess that’s just what she’s going to be doing.  I give her the best guidance I can but it’s up to her to make her own decisions.  Man, I sound like her parent.  I’m worried though.

You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0 Both comments and pings are currently closed.